Putting God First - Courage

I read this weekend that if someone is depressed or feeling bad about themselves that giving them compliments does not really provide much help. The article suggested that if someone is feeling like this they should put themselves down.

Really, it said that their “self talk” should not be about what they are good at, instead it suggested they should pay themselves an “un-compliment”. What they meant by this is that they should think of something they are not good or bad at and reverse compliment themselves. You need examples? Okay.

Let’s say I’m in this mood where I'm suffering from ingrown eyeballs. Here are some “un-compliments” I could say to myself:
“I would be the worst waitress in the world.” (see this is true, I know it, I accept, and I don’t care, it even makes me giggle to myself)
“I’d be terrible at doing surgery.” (I bet you are all glad I know this)

Wow, I’m feeling better already. Kidding, I’m actually in a good place today. But as I practiced this I did find out that my mind was forced to think of things I don’t do and why, which caused some internal thoughts that reminded me of my strengths. So maybe there is something to the article I read. I have to admit that until typing this post I really thought it was a bunch of nonsense.

Personally, I find the best way to correct my faulty thinking is to look at God’s word. No matter what I'm facing; hardship, attacks, illness, difficulties; it doesn't seem to weigh me down as much after I take it to the Lord. He has a way of helping me put "my things" into an eternal perspective. That typically gives me the strength and courage I need to move on. And when it doesn't, well then I need a REALLY good and courageous friend to look me in the face and say something like, "just get over yourself." Fortunately, God has given me many friends like that.

Chronicles 15:7
"But you, be strong and do not lose courage, for there is reward for your work."

Job 11:18
Having hope will give you courage. You will be protected and will rest in safety.

Psalm 31:24
Be strong and let your heart take courage, all you who hope in the LORD.

Psalm 138:3
When I asked for your help, you answered my prayer and gave me courage.

John 16:33
"These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world."

Philippians 1:28
Be brave when you face your enemies. Your courage will show them that they are going to be destroyed, and it will show you that you will be saved. God will make all of this happen.

James 5:8
You, too, must be patient. Take courage, for the coming of the Lord is near.

1 John 2:28
And now, dear children, remain in fellowship with Christ so that when he returns, you will be full of courage and not shrink back from him in shame.




My hope is in you Lord! Grant me courage no matter what I may face this week. Thank you Lord that you showed me the way and that you equip me with everything I need, WHEN I need it. Not before I need, and not after I need it. God, grant me opportunities this week to show others how much you love them. Allow me to be a source of strength for someone. I trust you God in all things. Praise the Lord oh my soul! In Jesus' name, AMEN.